Jealousy

This word 'JEALOUSY' is very familiar to you all right?
today i am going to discuss bout it.

Jealousy alwayz happen between a human being to another. I cannot think what other people thinks but i jux only can make judgement through my observation. there is once, my friend say that y i so miang keep seeing ppl here n there. i like 'HUH? What the crap are u talking about?' maybe i alwayz show my steam steam n blur blur face so ppl taught i am that kind of person gua.

This is my opinion de,


Question
1) why those single ppl jealous to those ppl having bf/gf?
2) why i saw couples that are so leng zai and leng lui but some are nt?
3) why those ppl that already have gf/bf stil wan to see other guys or girls?
4) why those ppl already have bf/gf, they stil like cin cai and dun care about their gf or bf?
5) why some couples giving their virginity to the one's they love?
6) why guys's desire is much more than girls?
7) will long distance relationship last for a couple?
8) why some guys and girls love to play other ppl's feeling?
9) what is the main reason that cause a couple to break off?
10) Single or in a relationship is a better choice?

ANSWER

1) single ppl jealous to those ppl having bf n gf. well, there are a lot of possible answers. maybe those single ppl heven't meet ppl they like yet. maybe they like the person but the person does nt like them? maybe they get rejected by the one's they love? maybe they don't have the courage to tell 'I LOVE YOU' this three words to the one they love? I also jealous those ppl having gf or bf. i feel it was nice to have that LOVE feeling.

2) oh ya, this question appear in my mind when i was making my observation in QB. I saw a lot of couples they all like so yao yeng la, leng zai, leng lui. As i knw, there is sure a lot of girls want to chase leng zai and same for the opposite sex. do they really luv each other or jux wan to show off to their friends ' U SEE LAR, MY GF SO LENG LUI!!' this is one of my friend said to his friend. What is their real intention? i have no idea. for my personal opinion, having a gf is nt a prob but finding a gf that loves u, cares for you are hard to find de. "Love can be found anywhere but not truth love.", agreed? It is so easy to tell a girl that "I LOVE YOU' but what u get is maybe a slap from that girl. maybe? lolx

3) why ppl stil watching other guys or girls although they already have bf and gf? Hmmm, curiousity? maybe is someone they know? maybe the guy wear too handsome and the girl wear too sexy? i think due to this main reason and it attracts a lot of ppl's attention on them. is it so nice to get this kind of attention? i think if girls wear too 'hot' or 'sexy' mostly will become the target of 'COLOUR WOLF'.

4) I luv this question man.. one of my friend is facing this kind of problem. the girl is been a relationship for 4 years de then my friend just know her for 4 months. A lot of rumous,eg the bf like very cin cai wan and doesn't care about her, he even bring her to IC(Internet Cafe) to play.. hardly gt girls go IC n play. somemore the bf after drop her home then go IC and play and dun even care about her. WTH is this kind of bf? Girl's feeling are to be treasure and nt meant to be hurt. As the bf, u should love and take care your gf and nt jux put ur gf aside and let her survive on her own.. so irresponsible bf.. haiz.. To those who are in a relationship, pls treasure those who u luv and try nt to hurt their feeling.

5) This question i been asking a lot of my friends. Sorry guys and girls, i dun mean to ask but i am just curious. i ask my girls friend that how they think about this question, mostly the answer is yes but why de? Giving their 'First Time' to the one's they love can improve the relationship between each other? but what is the consequences? If say u r lucky, then you are safe but does nt mean u r lucky next time. if say bad a bit, u maybe get pregnant if the guys forget to pull the 'emergency break'. u knw what i mean.. too private to say.. if the girl get pregnant, i dun think the girl dare to tell the parents " DADDY, MUMMY!! I AM PREGNANT AND YOU ALL GOING TO GET A GRANDSON!!" i think the parents going to kick the girl out from the door or report police. Girls, pls think carefully to give your "First time" to ur bf and think carefully what will happen if u r unlucky. Guys, i knw guys alwayz curious about sex so do i.. but think wisely before you action.

6) Guys desire are like hundred times than girls.. i am a guy lai de so i share it out here. i knw guys alwayz curious about SEX this word.. when guys see leng lui, some guys they vil start thinking to hav *** with the girl. this is a possible answer. some guys love to see girls with big boobs or big butt, why i was wondering? izzit nice? i hav no idea.. i jux dun like to see this kind of things.. is quite annoying.. i feel. actually nth to see also, the girl is also a human jux wif diff personality. thats all.

7) Yes! A long distance relationship can definitely work as long as both the guys and girls are determined to make it work. It is indeed difficult to keep a long distance relationship going. It's a path laden with more of downs than up, but like they say, true love will not succumb to the pressures of time or distance. The onus is on the couple to make it work. It is of utmost importance that the couple must be committed to each other and ready to sacrifice the joy of seeing each other daily.
Long distance relationship is no different from a proximal relationship in that both require a great deal of work, excellent communication, patience, sacrifice and understanding. But you will have to work extra hard to maintain the communication and to stay focused enough to not let your daily life interfere with your desire to be with the other person. Don't forget them or you can forget the relationship and it will all be over.
A relationship is about trusting and understanding each other as well as respecting each others feelings and opinion on things. Most of the time , loving someone is mistaken to be physical, dont let anyone mislead you. You dont have to get physical or go to bed or give yourself to someone else just to prove you love them. you can prove you love each other by sending each other mails as often as you can and text messages just to make one smile and to make each other feel and know you still love them and care about them. It is also very important to talk about everything that happens and talk about your problems and how you feel on issues. it is very wrong in a long-distance relationship to discuss a problem with a family member of the other or a friend either yours or theirs. Let them be the first to hear things and let it come from you. When you cheat on your partner , and this might sound hard , tell them the truth and break away from the relationship. it may be hard but long distance is trusting, so when you know you cant be true, you might as well not be in it.

8) i was been cheated by a girl. izzit my personality too good? the last sentence she told me is " You are too good and you deserve a better girl than me" am i that good? i dun knw. i just treausre the one's i luv and thats all. i jux do my bf part to care for the gf. although it last jux a few dayz but i really thank you for letting me feel the love again after a period. i alwayz forgive people than go revenge ppl.

9) There are a few reasons for a couple to break off:

a) After a big fight or argument on something.

b) No feeling towards the bf/gf

c) Did something wrong and feel guilty to the bf/gf

d) The bf/gf feel that he/she nt deserve for each other

e) The guy/girl is a playboy/playgirl

f) Parents objection

g) Distance problem

h) Some personal reasons

10) I dun dare to say which wan better cause both got their benefits and weakness.

Single- you got the freedom to do whatever u want without any hesitation but you will feel lonely

Relationship- you got someone to love you and care for you. you got that kind of feeling when u in luv. is hardly to describe.

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Lat word i wanna to say is in this post, i am nt saying anyone bad things or whatever and pls dun ever think that i am yellow minded. i am nt. in this blog, i jux express all my feelings.
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